PREMARITAL SEX PEER PRESSURES

Some people who engage in premarital sex say they were pressured into it by their friends. Some decided to engage in premarital sex because of their desire to belong to a group of people who claim to be in control of everyone around them and the environment. One thing people who are pressurised into premarital sex must understand that the only reason why their peers will force them into having sex is because they are jealous of their chastity. Chastity is a virtue that many have given away so easily and they have vowed to make others lose theirs. If you are single and have never had sex (boy or girl), it doesn't mean you are old school-it only mean you have control of your life. It is a sense of irresponsibility on the part of someone to want to have sex with anything on skirts or trousers. For those who have made the mistake of engaging in premarital sex, it is not too late to make a u-turn now. You may not be able to regain your virginity but you can be proud that you made a decision to keep yourself for your marriage partner. It makes you better than those who will never make that decision for fear of being called names. You must remember that people who have destroyed their lives, will always want to destroy yours to. Any one who forces you to act against your will and belief is not worthy to be called your friend. They hope that if every one is doing the same thing, that will them feel better as well as make wrong seem like right. One of the greatest factors that promotes premarital sex is peer pressure. Teens or single adults who indulge in premarital sex even get angry when others refuse to join them. They try to hurt other teens by calling them names such as old "school". Many Teens indulge in premarital sex for the simple reason that they do not want their peers or friends to make jest of them or call them old school. But the truth is that if you dont start taking control of your life now, someone else will. One of the greatest decisions you'll ever make in life is the choice to walk away from premarital sex. Being able to walk away from pre marital sex is a sign of maturity, not foolishness. If your peers refuse to admit you into their play group because you wont indulge in premarital sex, walk away because you obviously dont need such friends who's only aim is to control and dent your future. Be courageous and stand because it takes courage to be different. I look forward to hearing from you on your decision to abstain from premarital sex