Virginity refers to a person who has never been involved in any form of sexual activities. In essence, no one who has engaged in oral, vagina, or anal sex is a virgin. Loss of one’s virginity comes with any form of sexual gratification. The bible already made it clear that whoever looks at a woman lustfully has committed adultery (Matthew 5:28).
Still, there are people who live in regret because they lost their virginity. They are sorry about their mistakes and wish they were still virgins. The truth is that non-virgins might never regain their virginity status but God offers forgiveness and restoration. Do not lose faith because the bible promises forgiveness and sanctification to those who repent of their sins or past mistakes. Confess your sins right now and let God take over the rest of your life.
The reason God warns us not to lose our virginity outside of a marital union is to avoid the scars and comes from a relationship which is devoid of a life commitment. People get hurt because they give their most precious asset-virginity to someone who does not have their best interest at heart. People who are still virgins must do everything possible to guard their virginity because even after God offers forgiveness, the scars, the regrets, the guilt, and the shame are unbearable feelings. We bear the consequences of our actions. God has nothing lose. (Galatians 6:7).
This is a call to people who have lost their virginity to repent of their sins and ask God’s mercy and forgiveness. God is has already forgiven anyone who will admit the mess that they are in and return to Him now. The devil will tell you that your sexual sins are too great for God to forgive. Do not listen to Him because he is a liar and a deceiver. His lies put you in this situation in the first place. Accept God’s forgiveness and forgive yourself. Accept God’s restoration today and let him walk you through those pains, hurts, and regrets. God will open a new chapter in your life the moment you make the decision to avoid premarital sex from now on.
If you are still a virgin, cherish and keep it because it is the most precious gift you will ever give your spouse. Guess what, people who have lost their virginity are still searching for virgin men or women to marry. Most men will never marry a woman who has had sex with them. They will go to any length to marry a virgin even if it means that they have to pretend that they are decent. Make the best choice today and you will have no regret. SAY NO TO PREMARITAL SEX.
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