WHAT HAS SEX GOT TO DO WITH LOVE?

Teens
and single people need to understand that a great percentage of people
that profess love to them, are only interested in having sex with them.
What next will you have to do to further prove your love for him after
you have offered him your most precious asset-virginity, as your proof
of love?
If someone ask you to prove your love for them by having sex against
your will, tell them to prove their love for you by saving sex for
marriage. If someone says they will end their relationship with you if
you do not have with him or her, walk away from them because they are
selfish and do not have your best interest at heart. If sex was proof of
love, then prostitutes have been in love with a million and one men.
Sex is not a proof of love. It is an expression of love between two
people who have a life long commitment to one another. Sex does not
prove that you love a person because it is so inadequate in ensuring a
lasting relationship. True proof of love is measured in the commitment
of two people to build mutual trust, honesty, care, support, and respect
for each other. If all these attributes are missing in a relationship
or marriage, sex can never make up for it.
Any relationship that is built on flesh and selfishness will eventually
end in heartbreak. Teens and single adults have experienced countless
number of heartbreaks all in the name of proving their love for men they
discovered never care for or loved them. Single people must understand
that men are created to conquer and move to another ground. So, there
are many men who have vowed to sexually conquer as many ladies as they
can before they eventually get married. Even after marriage, there is
always a slim chance that they will be faithful to their spouse. The
virtues of true love is explained in 1Corinthians 13:4-8a
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not
arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable
or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrong doing, but rejoices with the
truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things,
endures all things…1Corinthians 13:4-8a (ENGLISH STANDARD VERSION)-
No doubt, the word will be a better place if people were not so
self-seeking and selfish. One of the virtues of true love is patience or
perseverance, a value most young people lack today. Teens and single
people want what they want, and now! If your relationship does not
possess these values, then you are on the wrong path. Remember, sex is
not a proof of love. It is only an expression of love two people
committed in a life long marriage.